Copyright Glen Dawursk, Jr. June, 2002
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As
a Christian educator, I know that God created all men in His image; that He did
not desire for His people to be separate from Him or each other. I know that God desired a lasting
relationship based upon what a person knows in his heart rather than what he
sees with his eyes. And I know that God
truly desires for all His creation to be apart of His “relationship” or the
“ecclesia” (a Greek word for the invisible church) the church only God knows,
the church of the heart not of the world.
The problem is simple; because of Adam’s fall, we now look at people
differently. Instead of seeing God’s
creation, God’s image, when we encounter another person, we now scrutinize them
based upon their differences from us. We
see with our eyes not with our heart. We
ignore the image of God and seek out the images of this world. Because of our sinfulness, society has become
based upon separatism, not diversity and judges people upon where they are
from, how old they are and what they look like instead of the identifying the
person within. A current contemporary
Christian song by the group
The
question is as tangled with sinfulness as the answer is. The solution is sinfully complex because of
society’s desire to control the outcome.
We make rules to make people get along.
Society’s solution is based upon external motivations not on internal
motivations. I contend that until
society deals with their “God shaped hole,” our world will continue to live
with anger and resentment, hatred and war, and true peace and harmony will
remain just a dream. Thus, the need for
crossing the barriers has to start when people are still children. Diversity needs to begin at youth and span
across the ages. I believe that positive
“Godly” exposure to multiple cultures is the beginning towards the ultimate
goal of real diversity.
Stories
are important to the Hmong people
for that is how they maintained their history and cultural uniqueness
when the written language was removed from them by their oppressors thousands
of years ago. The Hmong
share their life stories through a piece of colorful tapestry filled with
pictures called a pan ntaub. In order to better highlight concepts of
diversity and the need to share the Gospel message via different ways, I share
my story, my written pan ntaub.
I
was raised on the North side of
As
I grew up, I saw black men stopping by our house occasionally to drop off
Christmas presents for my father. My dad
was the set-up supervisor for A.O. Smith Corporation, a car frame manufacturing
plant in
The
formation of my perspective continued as I entered high school. Up to this time I had really no close
minority friends. My grade school class
of 42 briefly had a Hispanic brother and sister – but other than that, my
experiences were inconsequential. At
At
my 2000 + student parochial teacher’s college, I remember the Micronesian
students who attended there. They
especially seemed different.: small, dark skinned, a
cross between Asian and Hispanic in appearance. However, they also seemed to
always be drinking and partying. I did
not dislike them, but the college made no attempt to integrate them or to show
us their culture and I found myself keeping a distance from them. I never really got to know any of them
personally, nor did I desire to. I now I
regret it.
After
college I taught high school at a parochial school in
It
was not until I moved back to
As
our family grew, my wife and I decided to move to our old neighborhood on the
Northwest side of
When
I moved to
Over
the next six years, I encountered several Hmong
families through our church and community.
I found them to be anything but a blight. Their culture brought color to
The
Hmong work very hard.
During the Vietnam War, it was the Hmong who
secretly fought on
In
the past year, I have worked closely with about 40 Hmong
youth ranging from ages 6 to 18 years old.
Through a bi-weekly youth group we call SEA-Life (South East
Asians Living In Life Eternally) I have learned more
about diversity and teaching faith across the ages than have I throughout my
career – or for that matter, my entire life.
Today, I consider these youth and their families my friends. I sincerely care about them and I have sought
to learn as much about their culture as I can.
An old Indian proverb says, “Don’t criticize someone until you have
walked a mile in their moccasins.” This
proverb has become my anthem in ministry.
Today, I seek to find ways to get into the life of the children and
youth I teach and mentor. I learn their
story, not only so that I can better teach them the story of salvation in
Jesus Christ, but because I have a sincere interest in these people. Jesus demonstrated this concept often. His passion for ministry began with a sincere
compassion for the people. He ministered
to their needs before He ever preached to them.
He always met them on common ground. This needs to be the focus of all ministry
and education. If we are to effectively
teach children, mentor youth or instruct adults, we need to first meet them on
a common ground. Developing cultural and
lifestyle diversity is the key to breaking down educational barriers. Once these roadblocks are gone, effective
learning can finally begin.
When
I look at my life, I see how the balance of my father and my mother combined
with the fact that my “God shaped hole” was filled with spiritual virtues
rather than worldly ones, allowed me to approach prejudism
differently than my siblings. My brother
and sister each observed the same qualities in my parents, but their spiritual
life was empty. Also, their educational
and work environments allowed for a more crude approach to minorities. They both therefore lean toward my mother’s
perspective. Recently one of my
co-leaders developed a workshop on prejudism for our
youth ministry. The leader showed us a
variety of photos including a Hmong, an
Afro-American, an elderly Native American, and a GQ-style white male. We were asked questions about what we thought
about the people based upon the photos alone.
Interestingly, I was fine with all of the photos except the black
man. For some reason, I had
apprehensions about him. I could not
explain exactly why, but I did not trust him.
As it turned out, the man was a Harvard degreed stockbroker, but my
mother’s prejudice had poisoned my initial reaction. If education, religious or otherwise is to
be effective, we first must present a positive view of culture to all whom we
train. This will help to offset a
potential developing prejudism from home and will
encourage interaction among cultures in the classroom. Secondly, when we teach a person of color, we
need to consider their “story”, seek out and affirm positives within it, and
correlate and coordinate positive aspects of it into the lesson plan or
curriculum.
Dr.
Conquergood, the American doctor in
Many
of the children, youth and adults we educate come to us with cultural, societal
and lifestyle differences. Will we
approach them with pre-conceived ideas based upon our dogmatic procedures,
curriculum objectives, or spiritual mandates, or will we meet them on common
ground? As a Director of Christian
education, I have found one story that especially made concerns me. Wendy Walker-Moffat, an educational
consultant who worked at a Hmong refugee camp during
the Vietnam War suggested that “one reason the Hmong
avoided the camp hospitals is that so many of the medical staff members were
zealous volunteers from Christian charitable organizations” intent on
converting the Hmong. (Fadiman,
35) She shared a story about a Hmong man who was converted to Christianity, became an
ordained pastor and eventually found his way back to the refugee camp. When the Hmong
pastor suggested bringing in a shaman to act as a mediator for the people at
the hospital, the zealous Christian staff objected. When they asked the pastor if he ever went to
a shaman, he responded that he had. When
he saw their alarmed response, he quickly changed his answer to “No” and said
that he had only heard of others who had gone to a shaman. Walker-Moffat concludes her story be saying, “What they didn’t realize was that – to my
knowledge, at least – no Hmong is ever fully
converted.” (Fadiman, 35). This also seemed evident at the “Diversity in
Education” conference I attended this past Spring at the University of Eau
Claire, where a Hmong woman described the Hmong funeral tradition.
She spoke of Jesus Christ and how He had saved her and then in the
thought shared how she will be “re-incarnated” someday. Even in my SEALife
program where we are attempting to share aspects of Hmong
culture and folklore contrasted against Christian beliefs, it is imperative
that we keep the lessons simple, clear and concise. I cannot throw a 40-pound Bible on any
culture and expect it to make sense. I
cannot present the concepts of scripture the same way to everyone. Flexibility in approach is necessary if we
are going to be effective for the sake of the Gospel; and most importantly, we
need to have a passion for compassion.
We need to share because we truly care about the person. We need to be Jesus with skin on in order to
truly impact others, not simply “Bible beaters” bent on saving the world. Again, Jesus ministered first by His actions. True concern and compassion breaks down all
types of barriers. Jeanine Hilt was the welfare worker that became particularly
involved with the epileptic child mentioned earlier. She could have been considered the “enemy” as
she was the person chosen by the state to enforce the rules considering the
care of their epileptic child. She was
the one forced by the state to remove the child from the parent’s home for
almost a year because the hospital staff felt the family was incapable of
treating the child’s medical condition properly. But when the this social worker died several
years later, years after the child had entered her vegetative state, the mother
cried. “When I heard Jenny was dead, my
heart broke. I cried because Jenny had
told me she wasn’t going to get married and she would never have children of
her own, so she would help me raise my children. But she died, so she couldn’t do that, and I
felt I had lost my American daughter.” (Fadiman, 252) The
impact of this person was not made by what she said, by what she did. St. Francis Assisi, a catholic monk once
said, “Always preach the Gospel, and when necessary, use words.” This is the crutch of Christian education,
but it also crosses over to all aspects of life. If we want to impact our world, if we want
break the cultural barriers, if we want to make a difference across a person’s
lifespan, we need to start by learning the other person’s story, the other
person’s pan ntaub. – and
then let God change their heart toward faith.
SEALife Lesson Plan:
Schedule:
5:15-5:45 Whiffle Ball in
Gym or parking lot
(Back-up plan: ice cream bars/sandwiches downstairs)
Token:
Give them each a Stone Pillow CD
Objectives:
·
The youth will
experience fun and fellowship in a safe environment.
·
The youth will
become comfortable with the teaching and the leadership of the program
·
The youth will
learn, recognize and/or consider Hmong cultural
concepts, folklore and beliefs.
·
The youth will
learn, recognize, compare/contrast and/or consider Christian concepts,
scriptural stories and beliefs.
·
The youth will
experience the forgiveness of sins as the balloon rises out of site into the
sky
·
The youth will
be led toward a spiritual change of faith in Jesus Christ
Lesson: What happens when we die?
Hmong
culture believes that God gives the soul an allotted time for life and a
specific clan for a baby to be born into. When the soul takes on the human form
and the baby is born, the placenta or “tsho tsuj tsho npuag”
(“jacket” in Hmong) is to be buried in the parent’s
house. The boy’s near the main support
pole of the house and the girl’s under their parent’s bed. It is always buried
with the smooth side up so that the baby will not vomit. If the baby gets spots, this means ants are
eating the placenta, and the parents pour hot water over the burial hole to
stop it. This burial allows it to be easily reclaimed by the owner’s soul when
it begins it’s after death journey in the spirit world. The journey of the soul must travel backwards
from place to place where it has been in life until it finds the place where
the “jacket” is buried. Only when the
soul has put on the jacket of it’s birth, can it
continue its journey through the spirit world toward an eventual reunion with
its ancestors; but the journey is not easy.
The soul may encounter dabs, evil spirits bent on destroying or
punishing the soul. Hmong
folklore tells of giant poisonous caterpillars, man-eating rocks and monstrous
oceans filled with dragons that the journeying soul must endure. The goal of the soul is to reach a place that
is beyond the sky. Here they will be
re-united with their ancestors and eventually the soul can be re-incarnated
into a new baby. However, if the soul
initially does not find it’s “baby jacket,’ the soul will wander aimlessly for
eternity.
It
is for this reason that a Hmong funeral is considered
to be one of their most significant rituals.
Lasting usually three days, the ceremony gives the soul the detailed
directions or instructions for its journey through the spirit world. First the Qhuab Kev (“Showing the Way) is
chanted. This is done as close to the
death as possible so as to begin the process of transitioning the soul into the
spirit world. The qeej
(pronounced like “cane”) plays the “Song of Expiring Life” (Qeej
Tu Siav), also called the
“Last Breath” reed music. Finally the “qeej tsa nees” is played. It is intended to help the soul mount the
horse toward its heaven bound journey.
These combined with other rituals will assist the soul toward its goal
of returning, or being re-incarnated (“thawj thiab”) as another Hmong baby
someday. However, if the ritual is not
done or is done improperly, the soul may wander throughout the spirit world,
never to be re-incarnated or re-united with the ancestors.
What the Bible says:
A
few weeks ago, we learned about how Jesus, the Son of God, who lived a perfect
life, was killed. He was basically
framed by his enemies and then crucified on a cross. Jesus died for our sins, but after his death,
there was no “three day” funeral. He was
quickly removed from the cross and put into a stone covered cave or tomb. Yet, three days still has significance. As we
learned last week, three days after his death, He rose from the dead. He came back to life. Yes, thee people who
saw Him were shocked and amazed by this miracle. He eventually appeared to hundreds and hundreds
of people throughout the area. This leads to our lesson today.
It was now time for Jesus to
leave. No, He was not going to “die”
again. He was going to go back home and
prepare a place for us in heaven – or as the Hmong
culture might call the “Place beyond the Sky.”
Let’s listen to the verses from the Bible that tell
us about His ascension into Heaven.
[Listen
to Acts 1:1-11 from the NIV Audio Bible on CD]
Now
Jesus is coming back someday to take us to Heaven. Does it say that we will need directions? No.
Jesus will come back to take us to our place beyond the sky. Heaven is a free gift from God because of
Jesus’ death and resurrection. Pretty
cool, huh?
But,
what happens when we die? Do we meet any
fierce rocks or do we have to worry about poisonous caterpillars? Nope.
Our
soul goes to heaven directly when we die.
There is no “journey” necessary.
With Jesus, we simply know that we are saved, that we will be with
Jesus, God in Heaven. How interesting
that the Hmong funeral song speaks of “Showing the Way.” In the Bible we read that Jesus said, “I am
the way, the Truth and the Life. No man
comes to the Father but by me.” If we
try to “work” our way to heaven, we will be going the “wrong way.” Jesus tells us to simply believe in Him as
our savior and He will take us to Heaven.
I
really like the story about the placenta, or the “jacket”. Did you notice that the soul could not begin
its journey until it had the jacket surrounding him? We also require a sort of “surrounding jacket”
to be saved and go to heaven. Our
salvation is made real through baptism.
Baptism as we talked a few months ago when we learned about John the Baptiser, is the poring of water upon the
a person and while the word of God is spoken for the forgiveness of
sins. We are told that God’s Spirit
covers the person with the “blood of Jesus” and frees us from eternal
death. That jacket of blood was offered
for us on the cross. A small child, who
was born on Christmas Day, grew up to be the savior of the world. He sacrificed his life so that we could share
His life in heaven. That baby’s blood
became our “journey jacket” for our journey to the “Place beyond the Sky.”
As
for re-incarnation, only God re-creates, and he re-creates in us a new life
each day – but not a physical life in a new body. No, we will not be made into a different
body, a different person. We are not
re-incarnated. But, our “new life” is
the His Spirit living in us. Each day we
remember our baptism and the sacrifice Jesus offered for us on the cross. Each
day we are renewed or reincarnated by His Spirit and when we finally arrive at
Heaven, we are told we will have a “new, heavenly, perfect body.” We will be in the image of God the way He
intended us to be.
Closing Activity: “Balloon Release”
·
Ask every youth
to right down something that they are very sorry for. Maybe it is the name of a person whom they
have hurt or offended. Maybe it is a
wrong they have done toward a friend, family member, teacher, or God.
·
Tie the piece of
paper to the balloon string
·
Release it
outside.
·
Say: “Just as
the balloon you released from your hands goes up toward the sky and disappears
out of your site, so Jesus takes our sins, our guilt, or fears and
anguishes. Just like the balloon, as we
release them to God through confession and prayer, they disappear. God forgives us our sins ands they are not
held against us. May these balloons remind you of Jesus’ ascension and the
forgiveness He offers you each day. “
·
Finally as the
balloons rise into the sky, say a prayer of thanks giving for the forgiveness
we receive and the assurance we have of heaven.
Reprinted from an article about our Hmong
youth ministry in the Trinity Connection, December 2001. Also available on the web
at www.yat.org/sealife.htm.
Trinity’s SEA«Life
Brings New Life to Asian Youth
Glen
Dawursk, Jr.
Almost two decades ago, it
was Trinity who brought the first immigrant Hmong
family to
The idea for
a bi-weekly Hmong youth group came out of the
successful Hmong ministry camp co-sponsored by
Trinity and
Upon this success, the SEALife ministry was born. The program started out on
Sunday mornings as a “Sunday school class” but was quickly replaced with the
current Thursday night program when time and spiritual conflicts became an
issue with the youth. The program is under the direction of Glen Dawursk, Jr.
our Minister of Youth and Children, and Donna Krause, a certified Lutheran ESL
Teacher with connections to the Hmong community. SEALife meets at
the youth house every first, third and fifth Thursday nights from
Hmong (also spelled Mong) means
“blooming fertile” or “agriculture.” It
is thought to represent the first group of people who grew rice or corn in
As most of the youth who
attend SEALife are second or third generation, they
speak both English and varying levels of Hmong. However, SEALife
does have several high school youth who remember living is
On an average SEALife night, the youth are allowed to “hang out” and
enjoy the recreational activities of the youth house. After about a half hour, they are brought up
to the main level for community builders, announcements and other planned
activities. For the last 30-45 minutes,
the youth listen to a Bible story custom related to a Hmong
folk tale, religious belief, or other reference to their culture. For instance, as our church celebrated the
Epiphany, SEALife learned about the spiritual
“Shamans” who came to visit Jesus. This
reference to the Biblical “wise men” is consistent with historical scripture
and gives the youth a reference point to their culture.
The Hmong are traditionally “Animist.” However, many Hmong
families in
The Hmong
faith tradition promotes the idea that the spiritual world continues to
coincide within the physical world. The
culture is filled with numerous specific and non-specific spirits that
influence the outcome of each person’s life.
This includes deceased relatives, house spirits and spirits of
nature. Traditional Hmong
seek out ways to please the spirits in order to protect their family. Illness is believed to be a punishment from
the spirits and a shaman or “medium” between the spirit and physical worlds, is
a way in which they can communicate with them.
Animists also believe in reincarnation, and non-Christian Hmong believe they will return to Earth as a different
member of their family or “clan.”
These beliefs are consistent
with a law based religion and the Gospel message of Jesus Christ offers the Hmong community “forgiveness eternally.” Many of their traditions also reflect New Age
concepts prominent in society.
Therefore, it is easy for these youth to adapt to our Western world’s
non-Christian philosophy of thinking.
The SEALife lessons each week include actual
readings from the Bible in addition to explanations of the stories and faith
concepts. Many of the youth already are
asking questions and seem to be seeking answers. It is exciting to
see how the Holy Spirit is working in their hearts.
The goal of the SEALife ministry is not to segregate the Hmong youth, but rather to instruct them on our Christian
beliefs and assimilate them into our regular youth programs. Currently, 10 Hmong
youth attended the YAT “Rock-in Lock-in” in November and several attended the
Gifts Galore Sr. High Gathering in January.
Over-time, we hope that the SEALife youth will
feel comfortable with our beliefs and become active members of our existing
youth programs, Sunday school and church.
One of the biggest obstacles
of SEALife is transportation. The youth have no way of getting to and from
Trinity. Each week, the youth are called
a few days before to confirm if they are coming and if they need a ride. Once the list of names is complete, a map of
rider’s locations is developed and volunteer drivers go to the homes of the Hmong youth. Doug
and Evlyn Selz and Brenda
Simons have faithfully assisted as drivers for this project since the
beginning. At our last SEALife night, several Hmong
youth asked if they could bring a friend.
The problem is we are already at capacity for transportation. Often times our drivers have had to make
additional trips in order to pick-up more youth. If anyone can help drive from
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Other
Contributing Resources / Experiences
I attended/participated the following educational
experience during the past 6-8 months:
·
The Hmong News Years Celebration in
·
Course Workshop:
“Diversity in Education – Hmong Americans”,
·
Hmong Tapestry Presentation:
“Proud to be Racism Free” presented by the Hmong
Student Association of the University of Wisconsin – Stevens Points, John Muier Junior High School, Wausau, WI, March 16, 2002
·
Hmong Cultural Show hosted
by the Asian Student Organization of the University of Wisconsin – Marathon
County, Wausau, WI, April 4, 2002